Forgiving Has Never Been Easy

What's PAST IS PAST..... " I'm sorry, I promise it won't happen again." Are these phrases enough for you to forgive someone? Forget all the things she or he did to you?

People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered. We commit mistakes in life.  To remind you all WE ARE NOT PERFECT~ To forgive? YES; To forget? I DON'T KNOW..... 

"The best way to forgive is to forget?" Is that the way it is? What if someone hurt you, you felt like a truck hit you for five times and it crashed you down into pieces. Can you forgive this person? We forgive a lot but we can't forget what’s had been said and done .We are all wounded. We are all inadequate. 

There's a story I'd like to share about someone!~

♫♪And the hurt I feel is slowly dying..Now I'm no longer crying..It's leading to a new beginning And that's because I'm talking about forgiveness♫♪

She was young, immature but a girl who has a big heart.  She met this guy who she believed loved her like how she loved him. She has been fooled into thinking that she needs the boy to be happy. They kept on having communication... trying to know each other and they went to point where they felt LOVE? promises were said. But promises are really meant to be broken. After a few months, the guy decided to end their Mutual Understanding, which broke the girl's heart. She heard different rumors that this guy whom she loved liked someone else.. and the like. 

This made the girl realized that she should have knew it in the first place. Anger and frustration filled the girl's heart. Though this guy hurt him, she still holds on to these memories they had. Those happy moments... Though they were two different people with two different personalities they still found  a way where they fit.  These memories where they felt completely alive and loved. But maybe some fairy tales don't deserve a happy ending.

It was really hard for the girl to forgive the guy because she loved him. And for once she felt that she has been also loved. So she realized that maybe they aren't meant to be together. and they were young and in love. They don't know how to handle this kind of things. Now, they are now strangers with memories. She tried to forget EVERY SINGLE THING. It's like they never knew each other. She thought that it would be the best way for her to forgive and move on with this guy through FORGETTING everything. Of course at the beginning it was hard for her. She even had so many lonely nights thinking about it... but she grew better and mature. Now she is officially happy and freeeeee. Realizing that she made the craziest thing ever. But this pain changed her...:))

Forgiving and forgetting someone takes time. Especially if this someone had given you the worst memories and experience. But forgetting about the things someone did to you is reaally hard. But it still depends on the person how he/ she will forgive someone.. :)) to end this, for me, it will be hard for me to forget everything because the harm has been done. You won't let him or her enter your life again.. XDD

~ We were everything but we lost itt. We were meant to be supposed to beeeeee.